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How do you know when someone is your “the one”? How do you figure that out with millions of people out there in the world. How do you know that the one specific person that you are in love with, is the perfect person for you? I always seem to be stuck on love, what can I say? I’m a sucka for love. I cant deny it, I fall fast and I fall hard. Real hard. Sometimes maybe even too hard, and for the wrong people. So, how am I supposed to know when I have finished wasting my time and finally met the person with whom I will spend the rest of my life with? I wont say the person that I am going to marry because I have been there and done that and believe me when I say that marriage is not important to me anymore. So what if we don’t go and file tedious paperwork, trust me the paperwork for getting a divorce is much worse. I feel that I could definitely come off as a pessimistic, depressing, always trying to figure her life out type of person and in all honesty, that’s exactly who I am. I am stagnant. Never moving forward in my life, in any aspect of my life. How do I know when someone is the right person for me? I guess I can never know for certain. The only thing that I know for certain is that when I love, I will love unconditionally. When I fall in love, I lose control, I lose myself in the whirlwind of amazing emotions that I feel and honestly do not completely understand. Emotion explosions like fireworks on the fourth of July. Emotions deep, passionate, and yet confusing all in one. When I love, I become this completely different person who does not care to be hurt, does not care what might go wrong as long as she is with that person. That special someone who can make my day every single day, and make my world a better place, just by gracing me with their presence. When I love, I forget about my sorrows, I sacrifice things that should not be sacrificed. I love to the point that it hurts.. It hurts me. It hurts me but the sole feeling of being in love can reverse even the slightest pain that I have ever felt. I give myself, all of myself, without even thinking about it. In a fraction of a second I will do whatever it takes to make this person happy. Maybe this is why I have become a pessimistic, depressing, always trying to figure her life out type of person. I give myself, everything I have to offer to someone in hopes that they will care enough to not hurt me. I give my heart in hopes that it will not break. I am stagnant. Never moving forward in love. Stagnant. Never finding true happiness within myself because I find my happiness within others. Pushing my feelings to the side, finding myself preoccupied. TOO busy for myself. I think about this so much, almost every day. What can I do to make myself happy. What can I do to just keep myself a priority? How can I love myself as much as I love him. Love always finds its ways to take its toll on me and I am not so completely sure that I hate it as much as I say that I do. One day I will find that balance but that day is not today..
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